watched this relatively cute lesbian girl completely crash-and-burn with the bartender at one of my regular drinkin holes. I missed the worst of it, so I hear, but while I was there, she grabbed both of the bartenders arms and pulled her over the counter...yeah, no surprise she got the full-on bitch-out at that point. and yet she didn't leave for a full half hour after being told point blank, she was on the bartender's shit-list for being so aggressively jerky.
I understand the lesbian's way of thinking, the whole, but I'm a girl too, so it's not that bad...but it is just as bad. It's worse because you know how it feels.